Feeling anxious about an upcoming court-ordered psychological evaluation? You’re not alone. Undergoing a mental health evaluation as part of a legal case can feel stressful and uncertain. The important thing to remember is that the evaluator is a neutral professional, not an adversary. Their role is to provide an unbiased assessment for the court’s benefit, not to “trap” or punish you. In fact, even in contentious cases like custody disputes, the evaluator is there to impartially determine the facts and make recommendations in the best interest of those involved. With the right mindset and preparation, you can approach your court-ordered psychological evaluation in Tennessee (or elsewhere) with confidence and calm.

Why Courts Order Psychological Evaluations
Courts order psychological evaluations to gather objective information about a person’s mental state, behavior, and capabilities as they relate to a legal matter. Depending on the case, the evaluation might assess a parent’s fitness to care for a child, an individual’s competency to stand trial, or other issues like mental state at the time of an offense. The goal is to help the judge make informed decisions based on an expert’s findings.
Two of the most common reasons a court may order a psychological evaluation in family and civil matters are custody evaluations and Rule 35 evaluations. Understanding which type applies to your case is an important first step in preparing.
Custody/Rule 35 Evaluations
In child custody disputes, a judge may order a psychological evaluation to assess a parent’s fitness, mental health, and ability to provide a stable, nurturing environment for their child. These evaluations are focused on the best interest of the child and may involve:
- Individual interviews with each parent
- Psychological testing (such as the MMPI-2 or PAI)
- Interviews with the child (depending on age)
- Review of collateral records such as school reports, pediatric records, and prior mental health treatment
- Review of other court documents such as transcripts, videos, text communications, or public statements
- Drug and/or alcohol testing
- In some cases home visits or observed custodial visits
The evaluator is not looking for a “perfect” parent — they are looking for an honest picture of your parenting strengths, challenges, and overall psychological functioning. Being open, cooperative, and consistent throughout the process is critical. Any attempt to minimize problems or present an unrealistically positive image can be detected by experienced evaluators and may actually work against you.
Tips to Prepare for Your Court-Ordered Psychological Evaluation
Be Honest and Cooperative
The #1 rule is to answer all questions truthfully and fully. Lying or trying to hide information will only hurt you in the long run. The evaluator is not your enemy — they are there to gather accurate information, and the final report is only as good as what you share. Be open about your history, even if some topics (like past substance use or mental health treatment) feel embarrassing. It’s far better to be upfront than for inconsistencies to surface later. Similarly, maintain a cooperative attitude: listen to the evaluator’s questions, follow their instructions, and engage in the process respectfully.
Understand the Purpose of the Evaluation
Take time to clarify why this evaluation has been ordered in your case. Knowing the purpose will help you mentally prepare for the kinds of topics and questions that might come up. Your attorney can explain the specific issues the court wants addressed.
For example:
- In a custody evaluation, be ready to discuss your parenting routine, your relationship with your child, co-parenting dynamics, and your own mental health history.
- In a civil injury case, be prepared to walk through the emotional and psychological impact of the event or injury you are claiming, as well as your full psychiatric and medical history.
- In a criminal case, be prepared to answer tough questions about the case, your role in your defense, and an in-depth personal and psychological history.
Gather Important Documents and Information
In the days or weeks leading up to the evaluation, collect any relevant records that might be needed. The evaluator might want to review your medical history, past psychological or psychiatric records, school or employment records, or any prior legal documents related to your case. Provide these to your attorney and ask your attorney to forward them to the evaluator in electronic format.
If you have previous therapy records, records of medications, documentation of any diagnoses, or hospitalizations, have those ready. If this is a custody evaluation, you might also compile notes or journals about your parenting and have your child’s report cards or pediatric records on hand. These should also be forwarded to the evaluator by your attorney in electronic format.
Stay Calm, Respectful, and Don’t Get Defensive
It’s natural to feel a bit defensive when someone is evaluating you, especially in a legal context. You might be asked very personal questions about your life, habits, or past that feel intrusive. Remember that the evaluator’s job is to ask these questions to understand you better.
Ask Questions and Seek Guidance if You’re Unsure
If you’re feeling nervous about what will happen during the evaluation, don’t hesitate to reach out for information beforehand. Your attorney is a great resource — they likely have experience with these evaluations and can tell you what to expect or how to handle certain topics. You can also contact the evaluator or the office conducting the evaluation in advance to ask logistical questions or clarify any instructions you’ve been given.
Psychologists encourage clients to ask questions and voice concerns before the evaluation begins — it’s perfectly okay to seek clarification so you feel more comfortable.
Keep Perspective: It’s a Professional Process, Not a Trap
A court-ordered psychological evaluation is a professional process designed to gather information, not an interrogation designed to trick you. The evaluator is an impartial expert who does not take sides in the legal dispute. They are often called the “eyes and ears of the court,” meaning their role is simply to provide the judge with a factual, unbiased report of your psychological functioning.
This process can actually be an opportunity — a chance for your side of the story and your personal circumstances to be understood in depth. If you are honest, cooperative, and prepared, you have done everything in your power to let the process work as intended. The evaluation report will speak to your strengths, challenges, and overall situation, which can ultimately support an outcome that takes your true circumstances into account.
Bottom line: trust the process, be yourself, and let the evaluator do their job. By preparing well and maintaining a positive mindset, you can go into your court-ordered evaluation feeling reassured and empowered.
Athena Care Can Help You Through It
If you’re facing a court-ordered psychological evaluation in Tennessee, you don’t have to go through it alone. Athena Care offers experienced forensic psychologists who regularly conduct court-ordered mental health evaluations, including custody assessments/Rule 35 evaluations, civil assessments, and more. Our team understands how intimidating this process can seem, and we strive to guide our clients through every step with compassion and expertise.
Contact us to learn more about our forensic evaluation services or to schedule an appointment. We’re committed to helping Tennesseans approach their evaluations with confidence and get the objective answers they need. Your mental well-being and legal peace of mind matter to us, and we’re ready to assist you through the journey.
If you or someone you love would benefit from talking to a mental health provider in Tennessee, call or text:
877-641-1155
One of our Care Coordinators will help you get the care you need.

Dr. Ihrig, Ph.D., HSP
Psychologist and Professional Counselor
Dr. Ihrig is a generalist with experience working with persons of all ages. While still seeing a broad range of therapy clients, Dr. Ihrig spends the majority of his time doing diagnostic work, specializing in the assessment of conditions such as Asperger’s/Autism, ADHD, Pre-surgery Evals, Forensic Evals, and Neuro-Psychological Assessments. Dr. Ihrig is a former Adjunct Professor at TSU and Vanderbilt University. He is highly active in the community serving on the boards of the Nashville Area Psychological Association, the Tennessee Psychological Association, and the Sexual Assault Center. He works with people age 2 and up.

Meg Stein, CFP
Editor
Meg is a certified mindfulness instructor and works at Alive and Aware Practice in Durham, NC. She has over ten years of experience as a content creator and marketing consultant, working in mental healthcare and social justice.

